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In May of 2004 the play "Sin: A Cardinal Disposed" was playing in several locations including Boston and Chicago. It is one view of the sexual abuse and credibility crises within the Catholic Church.

 

Below is another proposed play centered on the similar tragedies that started becoming public in Dallas years before the Boston tragedy was addressed in "Sin: A Cardinal Disposed."  This play could be called "Bishop Grahmann Testified." It was originally composed by Bishop Charles Grahmann and Windle Turley as Mr. Turley questioned Bishop Grahmann during the 1997 Dallas sexual abuse liability trial. The testimony was regarding actions and omissions by Catholic leaders that allowed children to be sexually abused. It is taken from the transcript of Bishop Grahmann's trial testimony, line 11 of page 7598 through line 19 of page 7616.

 

 Bishop Grahmann Testified

The scene is a Dallas District Court.  The Bishop is on the witness stand.

 

11 THE COURT: Please state your full, legal name

12 for the record.

13 BISHOP GRAHMANN: Charles Victor Grahmann.

14 THE COURT: Okay. You may proceed.

15 MR. TURLEY: Thank you, Your Honor.

16 THE COURT: You're welcome.

17

18 (MOST REVEREND BISHOP CHARLES VICTOR GRAHMANN,

19 the witness, having been duly sworn and cautioned to tell

20 the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth,

21 testified on his oath as follows:

22 DIRECT EXAMINATION

23 BY MR. TURLEY: )

24 Q. Good afternoon, Bishop.

25 A. Good afternoon.

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01 Q. Bishop, unfortunately, this is the first day

02 I have been short of voice. And I will do my very best to

03 keep it up, but it is going away a little bit on me here.

04 Bishop, tell the jury what your present

05 duties are here with the Dallas Catholic Diocese.

06 A. I'm the Bishop of the Catholic Diocese of

07 Dallas.

08 Q. You are the supervisor, the employer, the

09 in-charge man for all of the priests within this Dallas

10 Diocese?

11 A. I am the pastoral shepherd of all other

12 people and priests of the Diocese.

13 Q. You manage them; do you not?

14 A. Within the boundaries of the law.

15 Q. You're the supervisor.

16 A. Within the boundaries of the Code of Canon

17 law.

18 Q. And you assign them to their tasks.

19 A. Within the boundaries degrees of Code of

20 Canon law.

21 Q. Bishop, when you came here, I understand it

22 was in 1990 that you assumed command of this Diocese?

23 A. That's right. I was appointed as the

24 Bishop of the Diocese.

25 Q. When I -- when you came here, it's my

7600

01 understanding from your deposition, that no one briefed you

02 at that time on the Father Rudy Kos problems.

03 A. No.

04 Q. And the person who, I guess, who most

05 likely, most reasonably should have given that you briefing

06 was Monsignor Rehkemper, your Vicar General.

07 A. Possibly.

08 Q. Do I understand that at the time you came

09 here, you did not have presented to you a file, even a file

10 on the Kos/boy problem?

11 A. No files were presented to me.

12 Q. And you had arrived just a few months after

13 a lady by the name of Allen, from Ennis, testified earlier

14 in this case that she had sent you or sent to Bishop

15 Tschoepe and Monsignor Rehkemper a letter in which she

16 contained a paragraph saying the boys are continuing -- are

17 saying overnight, on a regular basis, in the rectory, with

18 Father Kos over in Ennis. That letter was not on your desk

19 or anyplace around when you arrived, I guess.

20 A. Not aware of that letter.

21 Q. Father, when you gave your sworn deposition

22 testimony, you testified under oath that Father Williams

23 had not told you and didn't -- you didn't know that boys

24 were staying overnight when you talked to Father Williams

25 that first time.

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01 A. I don't remember him telling me they were

02 spending the night. He told me they were hanging around

03 the rectory.

04 Q. And you also testified that you didn't even

05 know when you first learned that they were staying

06 overnight; do you remember that?

07 A. When -- when Williams came to see me, that's

08 correct.

09 Q. Well, I understood you to say, on page 59 of

10 your deposition, that Father Williams did not tell you that

11 the boys were staying overnight.

12 A. I'm not aware that he told me that. He told

13 me they were hanging around the rectory.

14 Q. Okay. But, Bishop, there came a time when

15 you sat down and made some notes about this matter, didn't

16 you?

17 A. Yes.

18 Q. Have you reviewed those notes before you've

19 come here to testimony today?

20 A. No.

21 Q. Actually, contrary to your sworn testimony,

22 Bishop, in your notes, when Father Williams came to talk to

23 you in September of '91, he told you they were spending the

24 night, in that very first number one meeting you had when

25 Father Kos' problem was called to your a deposition.

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01 A. Okay, I wasn't aware. His emphasis was

02 that the kids were spending -- were hanging around the

03 rectory.

04 Q. Well, you made these notes. That

05 (indicating) is your handwriting, isn't it?

06 A. That's correct.

07 Q. And you made these notes on your

08 recollection of what Father Williams told you. And you

09 remember having a meeting in 1991. Late September or early

10 October Father Williams expresses his concern that a group

11 of boys are always hanging around the rectory. And he said

12 -- you said, you wrote, "even spending the night."

13 The reason I wanted to ask you about that --

14 that is what you wrote, isn't it --

15 A. Yes.

16 Q. -- Bishop?

17 The reason I wanted to ask you about that,

18 I wanted to get straight at the very start here that from

19 the very first time you heard anybody say anything to you

20 that there is a Rudy Kos boy problem, you were informed

21 that that boy problem included boys spending the night in

22 the rectory.

23 A. That's what he said to me.

24 Q. And not only did you learn that from Father

25 Williams in September of 1991, but you also, right after

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01 that, had a meeting with Monsignor Rehkemper, didn't you?

02 A. That is correct.

03 Q. And in that meeting with Monsignor

04 Rehkemper, he briefed you a little bit on this issue,

05 didn't he?

06 A. He did.

07 Q. And he told you that boys spending the night

08 in the rectory had been a continuing problem.

09 A. Concerns were raised in the past, correct.

10 Q. So, Bishop, even though this outgoing

11 administration had not briefed you fully on this when you

12 took over in -- what was is it, July of 1990 --

13 A. Yes.

14 Q. -- when you came here, you certainly had the

15 issue in your hands in the fall of 1991.

16 A. That's correct.

17 Q. And at that time it's my understanding you

18 did not say to Monsignor Rehkemper, "In view of all of

19 this, bring me the file. I want to look at the entire

20 file. I want to see everything the Diocese has on Rudy

21 Kos"?

22 A. No, I didn't -- did not see an opportunity

23 to do that.

24 Q. Bishop, have you given any estimate since

25 that time to the number of sexual violations of boys that

7604

01 were committed from September of 1991 until September of

02 1992 when Rudy Kos was made public?

03 A. No.

04 Q. Bishop, can you hear me okay?

05 A. Yes, I'm doing okay.

06 Q. So after Father Williams came to you in

07 September of 1991, it's my understanding you had a little

08 sit-down with Father Kos.

09 A. Yes, I did.

10 Q. In other words, you called him in for a

11 meeting.

12 A. That's right.

13 Q. And you told him that he should stop having

14 boys spend the night.

15 A. I told him what Father Williams had told me.

16 Q. Yes.

17 A. And he verified and said, yes, that was

18 true. So, therefore, I gave him a simple, strong

19 directive, no more, absolutely no more.

20 Q. Absolutely don't do it again --

21 A. That's right.

22 Q. -- no more boys overnight.

23 A. Or at the rectory.

24 Q. You even went a little further and said,

25 "Don't even have boys in the rectory".

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01 A. At the rectory, that's right.

02 Q. Daytime or any time.

03 And I asked you, when you told us that in

04 your deposition, if you were not suspicious at that time

05 that he might be a threat, a sexual threat to these young

06 men, young boys. And do you remember what he told me?

07 A. No, I don't.

08 Q. You said, "No suspicion at that time."

09 And do you remember I -- I asked you then if

10 you asked Rudy Kos if he had been in any way conducting

11 himself in an inappropriate sexual way with these boys.

12 Do you remember me asking you that?

13 A. Yes, I do.

14 Q. And what did you tell me?

15 A. I said "No, I did not feel it opportune to

16 do that".

17 Q. And those of us around the table there, at

18 least for myself, were puzzled. Do you remember I had kind

19 of puzzled look on my face?

20 A. No, I don't remember.

21 Q. Bishop, you said you didn't feel that there

22 was any need to do that at that time. Was that not because

23 you really had never been briefed on the issue, you didn't

24 have all of the information that had gone before?

25 A. Oh, I was briefly very much on the issue of

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01 pedophilia and the awareness of pedophilia.

02 Q. But I'm asking -- I'm asking you, Bishop, if

03 you had been briefed on what had happened here in this

04 Diocese with Father Kos?

05 A. No, I was not believed on -- on that

06 particular issue.

07 Q. Let me ask you: If you had had this

08 information made available to you for -- it should be on

09 are monitor. Can you see it there, Bishop?

10 A. Yes.

11 Q. For example, in the file of Rudy Kos here at

12 this Diocese are written the words by Father Duesman when

13 he investigated his annulment, which he said, "Something is

14 fishy. Petitioner should level with us."

15 Skipping the next item, where his ex-wife

16 said in her deposition that he was gay and he has problems

17 with boys, those words didn't get in the file, but that is

18 what she testified she told Duesman. So skip that for just

19 a moment. But in the file would you have scene where

20 Rector Hughes, when he applied for admission to the

21 seminary, said, "There is some instability here. I'm

22 rejecting him this year and maybe next year maybe he should

23 never get in."

24 And then in 1981, it is probably not

25 reflected in the file, was the reported sexual advance on a

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01 student. Disregard that for just a moment.

02 And then we come up from '81 to '85 if you

03 -- in the file would have been reflected letters from

04 Clayton and others that would have indicated that as far

05 back as '81 and into '85 the Chancellor and Monsignor Kamel

06 knew that Kos had boys overnight in his room at All Saints.

07 And then starting in December of '85 the

08 alerts would have been more specific. You would have seen

09 in the file, Bishop, that Clayton -- Father Clayton had met

10 with Bishop Tschoepe and Sister Maureen, and the results of

11 that decision about Father Kos was, "Be alert to sexual

12 misconduct by Kos."

13 And then you would have seen in the file,

14 wouldn't you, in January of 1986, that Monsignor Rehkemper

15 suspects Kos is either homosexual or child abuser, said "We

16 don't have hard evidence, but we suspect it", and noted

17 that boys were spending the night overnight, staying

18 overnight.

19 And then in 1988, '86, still, 1986 Father

20 Clayton again warned the Diocese, Rehkemper, "Kos is a

21 danger" -- "is a danger to the church at large and to

22 St. Luke's", sees him that way. And then in May of 1988

23 Father Clayton sends a second set of warnings and logs to

24 the Diocese.

25 All of that you would have seen in the file,

7608

01 Bishop. And you would have also seen --

02 MR. MATHIS: Your Honor, to that extent, I object

03 to the characterization of these. These are Mr. Turley's

04 characterization of those, and those may or may not be

05 consistent with what the witness has actually said when

06 they were explaining each of those matters --

07 THE COURT: Okay. So I'm unclear --

08 MR. MATHIS: -- there has been lengthy testimony

09 with respect to these. This little blips that he puts up

10 there may or may not be right what the evidence is.

11 THE COURT: So I'm unclear as to your evidentiary

12 objection.

13 MR. MATHIS: Well, to extent it is tried to be

14 made part of the question, and I'm still waiting on a

15 question as part of all of this, it is improper

16 characterization of prior evidence.

17 THE COURT: Okay.

18 Response.

19 MR. TURLEY: Your Honor, we've been all through

20 this, each of the witnesses over whom -- who helped us

21 prepare these notes that summarize their testimony on those

22 points, said that is a fair summary of what I have said.

23 THE COURT: Okay, the objection is overruled.

24 Q. (BY MR. TURLEY) Continuing, Bishop, with

25 us, that if you had looked in the file and Father Clayton's

7609

01 report, would you have seen the words that one of the

02 parishioners reports there is an ugly rumor that Kos likes

03 little boys. And in the file you would have seen,

04 advancing to June of 1986, that the Diocese -- Diocese's

05 office learned that Father Kos had been shaken by a child

06 abuse seminar that he attended in 1986.

07 You also would have see in that same memo,

08 although it is not reflected on the red flag chart here,

09 that twenty-four hours later he had a ten or eleven year

10 old boy spend the night with him. You would have seen in

11 the file, Bishop, that in August of 1986 Father Clayton is

12 saying to the Bishop, about the overnights, "Grave concern

13 for all concerned. Instincts say to act", and that in

14 August of 1986 Rehkemper again warns, "Kos of overnight

15 guests, imprudent. Can jeopardize the Diocese". And

16 would you have seen, also, if -- if it was in the file, it

17 is not in the file now, but if it had been in the file at

18 that time, you would have seen in -- in June of 1989 that

19 Mr. and Mrs. Allen from Ennis informed the Dallas that for

20 several months boys had have been spending the nights at

21 the rectory. All of those things you would have found in

22 file.

23 Now, Bishop, my question is: If you had

24 pulled out the file and looked at it, I submit to you -- I

25 know you haven't been here for all of the evidence that has

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01 been offered in this case, but I submit to you that every

02 one of these things have been referenced, in one way or the

03 another, in the Diocese's file. I is my understanding

04 that you did not ask Rudy Kos, in 1990, if he was sexually

05 abusing boys, because you had never seen this material; is

06 that correct?

07 A. That is correct.

08 Q. And when I took your deposition, even, in

09 1994, two years after Rudy Kos has been exposed, a year

10 after the lawsuit has been filed, more than a year after

11 the lawsuit has been filed, you still had not read --

12 opened the file and read this material.

13 A. That is correct.

14 Q. In the 1990 meeting that you had with Father

15 Kos after you met -- when you met with him after Father

16 Williams --

17 A. 1991.

18 Q. Yes, '91. Thank you, sir.

19 In the September/October 1991 meeting

20 Father Kos admitted to you, did he not, that he knew of the

21 policy that he was not supposed to have boys in the rectory

22 overnight; he admitted that, didn't he?

23 A. I'm not sure of that.

24 Q. Okay. And he admitted also that -- that he

25 had been violating that policy.

7611

01 A. I'm not sure that he admitted it to me. I

02 asked Monsignor Rehkemper and he informed me of the policy.

03 And I used that information, then, in my talk to Kos.

04 Q. When you gave him that warning, though, you

05 were aware that he had already been previously warned.

06 A. No, I was not.

07 Q. And you don't recall telling me in your

08 deposition that Father -- that Father Kos admitted that he

09 knew of the policy against overnight boys and that he had

10 -- he knew that he had been violated that policy.

11 A. I don't remember that.

12 Q. Well, let's look at line 13, page 66. I

13 think it's in here, Father -- Bishop.

14 You answered:

15 "Q. Well, I verify that Father Williams --

16 what Father Williams said".

17 This is in your meeting with Father Kos.

18 "I wanted to have that verified. I wanted

19 to know myself. And he said, yes, the boys were hanging

20 out, occasionally spending the night. And I reminded him a

21 policy was in-place and asked him if he knew of the policy.

22 yes, he knew of it. He wasn't observing it."

23 So in 1991, in September, the very first

24 time you were confronted with this issue, you knew at the

25 get-go that Father Kos had a long-standing problem of

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01 having boys in the rectory.

02 A. I did not know that at the time --

03 Q. Monsignor Rehkemper --

04 A. -- when he came to see me.

05 Q. -- Monsignor Rehkemper didn't tell you that

06 this had been an ongoing problem?

07 A. After I saw Father Kos, not before.

08 Q. Within a few days --

09 A. Okay.

10 Q. -- you knew that this had been a

11 long-standing problem, you knew that Rudy Kos knew he was

12 violating the policy --

13 A. Yeah.

14 Q. -- you knew that the issue was continuing.

15 So you gave him another warning, if I understand correctly.

16 A. A very strong warning.

17 Q. And you told him if he continued to violate

18 the policy, something might be done.

19 A. No.

20 Q. You gave him a strong warning indicating

21 that you would not tolerate any violation of the policy.

22 A. That's right. He would cease and desist

23 having the youth at the rectory.

24 Q. You didn't put anything to him in writing.

25 A. No, I did not. I spoke to him directly.

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01 Q. And I'm correct, am I not, Bishop, that

02 during this entire ten years that the Dallas Diocese was

03 dealing with Rudy Kos' continuing problem of violating the

04 policy, of boys overnight, not one time, not one time did

05 the Diocese ever put in writing to him, "You're violating

06 the policy. Stop it now"?

07 A. I'm not aware of that.

08 Q. Do you agree me, Father, that -- Bishop,

09 that a minimum -- at a minimum, prudent and careful action

10 at that time would have dictated that the administrator in

11 charge of this institution at least open this suspect's

12 file to see what is in it?

13 A. No, because I did not have that background

14 information. The information I had was there was a policy

15 of anyone staying at the rectory.

16 Q. I guess that until you open the file, you're

17 not likely to ever get that background --

18 A. That's correct.

19 Q. -- information, are you?

20 A. But there was no reason for me to look in

21 the file.

22 Q. Even when Monsignor Rehkemper said to you --

23 even when Monsignor Rehkemper said to you, "This has been

24 an ongoing problem".

25 A. He said there was a policy against this and

7614

01 there were concerns raised in the past.

02 Q. All right. Still didn't open the file?

03 A. That's correct.

04 Q. Now, come March of 1992, Father Williams

05 contacts you again. He reports the boys are back; do you

06 remember that?

07 A. He didn't say the boys were back, he said he

08 is seeing the boys in their homes. But he said, "There

09 were some back last week --

10 Q. Well --

11 A. And that raised my eyebrow, because I said,

12 "I have instructed him firmly not to have these boys there

13 again. Is it true that some of them were back?"

14 Q. So he says, "The boys -- some of the boys

15 are back, last week, whenever", so you called Father Kos in

16 again.

17 A. Immediately.

18 Q. And you say to him, "Stop that". And you

19 said --

20 A. No, I didn't. I asked him whether it was

21 true.

22 Q. And you also said to him, "Stop that. I

23 forbid it from happening again".

24 A. I'm not sure if I used that language, but I

25 did ask him at that time, when he violated my directive, I

7615

01 asked him at the time, "Is there something sexual going on

02 here?", and he denied it. I think I used the word

03 pedophilia, and he denied it.

04 But then I said, "Okay, you disobeyed me.

05 I'm going to send you for a second opinion to St. Luke's

06 Institute".

07 Q. And do you know how many warnings that made,

08 in total, that Rudy Kos had been given by the Dallas

09 Diocese and its officers, managers, since this matter came

10 up? By March of 1992, do you know, Bishop, how many times

11 he has been warned?

12 A. This wasn't a warning. This was action. He

13 was going to St. Luke's Institute.

14 Q. Well, you said -- you also said, "Stop doing

15 that. I forbid to it happen again".

16 A. Well, I don't know if I used those worlds.

17 Q. Those are the words you said you used, on

18 page 71 of your deposition, Bishop.

19 A. Okay. I accept that.

20 Q. If you went back and looked at the file,

21 would you agree with me that we would find that

22 Father Clayton, when he was Rudy Kos' pastor and Rudy was

23 the assistant out at St. Luke's, had warned him at least

24 twice, that Monsignor Rehkemper warned him in January of

25 1986 and again a couple of years later when he called him

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01 in and warned him, instead of giving him a written letter,

02 one time the Personnel Board said, "Stop showing favoritism

03 to little boys", before they transferred him to Ennis, you

04 yourself have warned him twice now already, you're going to

05 warn him a third time, subsequently, we know, and I think

06 the record will show that Bishop Tschoepe warned him once

07 or twice.

08 All totaled, do you realize that March of

09 1992 Father Kos has been warned, "Stop the overnight

10 visits", eight or ten times; do you realize that?

11 A. I'm not aware of that.

12 Q. And then July did come, of 1992. You have

13 him back in your office, and we'll come back to how he got

14 there in July of 1992, but you have him back in there again

15 for your third meeting with him, and isn't it true that you

16 tell him, one more time, "Stop. Don't have the little boys

17 overnight"?

18 A. That's correct, and "I'll move you if you

19 do".

 

(The testimony in the Rudy Kos Liability trial continues at  page 7616, line 20 of Bishop Grahmann's Testimony as recorded in the trial transcript.)

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